The excitement begins when your guests open
their mailbox and find your invitation. "We're invited to a party!" Your
invitation sets the tone for your occasion. Does it scream "I can't miss
this party it sounds fabulous!" or did you send out a letter sheet that
reads like a grocery list of boring statistics that immediately got
relegated to the pile referred to "maybe we'll think about it unless
something better comes up."
Choosing your Invitations
Your invitation should match the style of your
event. Is it formal, semi-formal or a casual backyard get together. Your invitation provides the details of the celebration as well as what to
expect at the party. A casual get together? A corporate gala for 500? A surprise birthday party for your husband of 20 years?
When choosing your invitation, remember you already have a theme - the occasion for the party. Is it for a man or a woman, your company or a baby shower for a friend. What are their hobbies or interests? What's their favorite cocktail? Is it a summer pool party or a winter "we're freezing but need a reason to party" kind of thing. You can use our site's Search feature to help narrow down your search for the perfect invitation.
What to include in your Invitation
The purpose of the invitation -
A birthday party, a wedding, a holiday open house.
Name of honoree - the birthday
person, the mother-to-be, the bride and groom
Day and Date of the party
- Saturday, August 29th or if it is formal, Saturday, the twenty-nineth of
August. Look at your calendar to make sure the as in this example,
the 29th of August is really on a Saturday. If a formal event, include the
year and spell it out - two thousand and ten
Time -6:00 p.m., or for formal
events, spell out the time such as six o'clock in the evening
Name of Place - Opah's
Restaurant
Location of Place - street
address, city and state if inviting out of town guests, but no zip code
Name of the host(s)/hostess(es)
or parent(s) giving the party
Appropriate attire - if it is an
issue with your party -do not use on formal invitations-the event should
be the clue as to the appropriate attire.
Proof read several times for
mistakes and/or forgotten information! Even have a friend read it to make sure it's perfect!
Wording your Invitation
All invitation phrasing is in the third person.
Examples:
Use:
Don't use:
...the birth of their son...
...birth of our son
Smith & Co. invites you to their
Smith & Co. invites your to our Annual...
Do not use abbreviations.
Example: Spell out words such as Road, Street, and state names;
California
Days,
dates are always spelled out
Example: Monday or September
Times and Years should be spelled out on wedding
or formal invitations
Example: Four o'clock in the afternoon / Two Thousand Four
Hint: The "o" in "o'clock" is never capitalized
Punctuation is not used at the end of the lines.
(no commas, periods, colons., etc.)
Example: John and Sally invite you to join the fun. (leave off the
period)
Commas can be used to separate information that
appears on the same line such as:
Example: November 14, 2004 or Rochester, New York
Children Allowed, Mentioning Gifts, Where you're Registered:
It is
socially incorrect to mention "no children allowed" or to mention gifts or
where you are registered on invitations. We have found that our
customers follow these rules on strict formal invitations such as black tie
or wedding invitations, however, on informal invitations, anything goes and sometimes, the more information, the better.
When in doubt, you can inform your guests of any important details when they
RSVP to the invitation.
When to mail your Invitations
Traditionally, it is advised to send out
invitations eight weeks before your event. We can hear you screaming
"Eight weeks!" We've found while this is a good idea with formal
events and weddings, it is just not possible with most every-day events.
Our customers tell us that they didn't even think about having a party
until 2-6 weeks before their event. Obviously, the sooner you can
notify your guests, the better, but don't let this stress you out or prevent
you from getting killer invitations at the last minute. Anything goes and much is possible these days.
If you know you're having a party for an event
that is several months away, consider sending a Save the Date card.
This is simply a notice to your guest list that you are planning an event
for that date and to mark their calendars so they'll be ready when the
details follow by invitation closer to the party date when the details have
been finalized. Save the Date cards are almost a necessity for events
taking place on holiday weekends, events that will require out of state
travel for guests or a wedding to ensure vacations are not scheduled for the
same time.